{"id":153,"date":"2014-04-15T08:27:26","date_gmt":"2014-04-15T08:27:26","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/whatsyourpoint.mobi\/?p=153"},"modified":"2019-04-05T22:10:49","modified_gmt":"2019-04-06T02:10:49","slug":"ice-breakers-communication-illusions-or-fast-trackers","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.thecatalyst.com\/blog\/ice-breakers-communication-illusions-or-fast-trackers\/","title":{"rendered":"Ice Breakers: Communication Illusions or Fast-Trackers?"},"content":{"rendered":"<h1>Speakers often start group sessions with &#8220;ice breakers&#8221; that get participants talking to each other about personal topics they would otherwise not discuss with a stranger.<\/h1>\n<h2>Facilitators kick off meetings by asking attendees for self-introductions which include personal tidbits.<\/h2>\n<h2>Sales people search for common ground as a focus for a friendly chat before getting down to business.<\/h2>\n<p>In all cases, the goal is to &#8220;break the ice&#8221; and quickly earn trust to expedite effective communication.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Whether you are intent on bringing strangers together quickly to form a common-purpose group, on learning exactly what colleagues care about, or on closing a sale with a new client, how you &#8220;break the ice&#8221; can determine whether you end up with genuine reactions or later-reversed acceptance that leaves you feeling blind-sided.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Problems can arise when you latch on to an icebreaker that you feel comfortable using, but <!--more-->that does not have relevance for your target group. With so much changing, if you&#8217;re using ice breakers that are older than your favorite device, you&#8217;re probably not getting genuine buy-in.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Take a close look at what you do and say or email to earn trust on in group situations or when expecting to take a prospect to client status in one meeting:<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>What is the point of your ice breaker? What strong statements are you making about how you work and what you sell?<\/li>\n<li>How relevant is the context of your trust-earning story or exercise, and how does it relate to the project at hand?<\/li>\n<li>How do you measure the effectiveness of your ice breaker? What follow-up do you use to continue the acceleration of trust earning?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Which ice breakers consistently hit the mark for you?<\/p>\n<p>Did you create them yourself or adapt them from one that warmed you up?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Back to HOME &#8230; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.thecatalyst.com\">The Catalyst.com<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Speakers often start group sessions with &#8220;ice breakers&#8221; that get participants talking to each other about personal topics they would otherwise not discuss with a stranger. Facilitators kick off meetings by asking attendees for self-introductions which include personal tidbits. 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